Love One Another
John 13:31-35
What do you suppose the answer would be if we ask the general public the question, “What is unique about Christians?” You would probably get a variety of answers, depending on people’s experiences with Christians. Some who really understand the Christian faith may say that the most unique thing about Christians is their trust in Jesus Christ alone for the forgiveness of sins and eternal life in heaven. That’s the answer I would hope to hear from all who call themselves Christians. In reality, I would probably be disappointed with the answers that many who call themselves Christians would give. Too often today the understanding of the Christian faith has become tainted by the influence of the world. It’s been watered down and dumbed down so much that Jesus and His first disciples would hardly recognize much of what is being taught by many of today’s Christian Churches . Human logic has become the guiding principle in determining what is taught. If it doesn’t match up with human experience, it must not be true.
Perhaps that is what Jesus was anticipating when He spoke to His disciples on the night when they gathered for that final Passover meal together, the night when He would be betrayed, arrested, and put on trial before He would be crucified. That is when Jesus spoke about many things to His disciples to prepare them for what would be ahead. He was going away from them. It was going to be difficult for Him and it would be difficult for the disciples as well. He told them that He would only be with them for a little while. Imagine the concern in their hearts as they thought about life without their teacher, their Lord. What were they to do? Who would they follow when He was gone? Why couldn’t they go with Him? Some of the words of Peter in our Gospel lesson show us what they were thinking. Jesus’ words to them on that night are important words for us as Christians in our world today. We are facing increasing opposition to our Christian principles from the world around us and we need reminders like the words that Jesus spoke to His disciples on that night. As we think about what He said, may we be strengthened for the struggles that we will have as we seek to become an influence in the world around us for Christ.
When you look at what Jesus had to say in these verses, His main message comes through loud and clear, “Love one another.” That seems like a rather simple thing to do. Love one another and everything will be great. Let love be your guide in everything you do and you will be successful and the Word of the Lord will be passed on from one generation to the next and the church will grow and you will be able to carry out the Great Commission to go and make disciples of all nations. Just love one another.
Actually what Jesus said was, “A new commandment I give to you, love one another as I have loved you.” For those who know the Scriptures, you have to ask, “Is that really a new commandment?” After all in the Old Testament the people of God were told to love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. In His teaching in Matthew 22, Jesus called this the first great commandment. The second great commandment was love your neighbor as yourself. Now Jesus was saying that He was giving them a new commandment. “Love one another as I have loved you.” Did you notice the difference between the old commandments and the new commandment? Jesus added the words, “as I have loved you.” That makes all the difference. Now the standard has changed. Before it was love your neighbor as yourself. That is fairly easy to understand. How do you want people to treat you? That’s how you should treat one another. In the new commandment, Jesus urges His disciples, “Love one another as I have loved you.”
This gets a bit more complicated. This is not going to be easy. Following any command of God is difficult because your sinful nature always seems to get in the way. In our sinfulness, even the command to love your neighbor as yourself can be taken in a very selfish way. I’ll be nice to them so that they will be nice to me. That’s not what God intended by that but it is the way that we put a spin on it. In fact, the temptations of the devil, the world and our sinful nature make it difficult for you even to go that far in keeping that command.
When we look at Jesus’ new commandment, as He called it, there is more than just a command there. He reminds us of His love. We are to love as He has loved us. When we think of how He has loved us, that is the essence of the Gospel message. That Gospel message has power, the power of the Holy Spirit who makes things happen in our lives. Jesus demonstrated His love for us when he left His throne in heaven to come down to earth to become a human being. We can think of the words of the Creeds that tell us that He came down from heaven and was incarnate, in other words, took on human flesh and blood by the power of the Holy Spirit and was born of the Virgin Mary and was made man. He knew why He came to earth. He knew why He had to become a human being. He knew that He would have to suffer and die. He gave up His life so that we could be brought back into a restored relationship with God, a relationship that was shattered by sin. Through His resurrection He brought new life for those who believe. You have new life now that is empowered by the Holy Spirit so that you can love others as Jesus has loved you. You also have the promise of life forever with Him in heaven because you have been rescued from the sin that separates you from God. His love for you has a purpose. That purpose was to bring you back to the loving arms of your heavenly Father. That action was motivated by love. It is a love that is undeserved. You didn’t earn it by your good deeds or good intentions. He loved you in spite of your sin. That is what grace is all about. It is undeserved love. It is a love that never ends.
That is the Good News. The Holy Spirit works through that Good News to strengthen you to do what might seem to be the impossible, to love others as Jesus loves you. His love is a giving love. He gave Himself for you. His love is a never ending love. His love is undeserved. His love has a purpose: that you would be reconciled, brought back, to God. Now He says to us, “Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.”
Just as His love has a purpose, so your love for others also has a similar purpose. Although you are not being asked to suffer and die in order to bring others back to God, you are being asked to love them so that they can be brought to faith and be built up in their faith through the power of the Holy Spirit that comes through the Means of Grace, which includes the message of God’s love demonstrated through Jesus Christ. You are called to love as Jesus loved you, love that is undeserved, unquestioning, purposeful, and enduring.
He also added another statement that touches on this purposeful love. In the last verse of our reading, Jesus said, “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” By living out His love in your life, you are identifying yourself as His follower. You will not only be touching certain individuals with His love directly but you will have an influence on all who observe the kind of unique demonstrations of love that are part of the life of a follower of Jesus. That can have an impact on people you didn’t even know about. Can you imagine the blessings that can overflow when you follow the new command that Jesus gave His disciples on that night when He was anticipating His death? He knew what was going to happen soon but He also knew what would happen when His future disciples would follow His new commandment, “Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.” Amen.