How to Make Enemies: Speak the Truth
John 8:48-59
Bookstores and libraries are filled with self-help books and the market for them is growing all the time. Actually the first best-selling self-help book was How to Make Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie in 1936. Millions of people have read this book or have taken courses based on the book. There are a lot of helpful strategies in the book that can be useful in business, sales, and many areas of life. While the book is not necessarily religious, many of the principles that the author proposes could stand along side clear Christian principles of dealing with people. In the past weeks we have heard the words of Jesus as He talked about the new commandment, love one another as I have loved you. However, there are some areas where I don’t think that Jesus would agree with Carnegie. As you read the Gospel lesson for today, you have to notice that Jesus wasn’t making too many friends by what He was saying. In fact, you could title this section, “How to Make Enemies: Speak the Truth.” As we consider what Jesus had to say and the challenges we have as Christians in our world today, may we realize that, in the long run, speaking the truth in love is truly the God-pleasing way to influence people.
This reading starts right off with a rather shocking statement by the Jews. “Are we not right in saying that you are a Samaritan and have a demon?” In their minds this was about the most insulting thing that they could have said to Jesus. In the verses that come before this, Jesus had been speaking the truth to them about their attitude toward Him. They were claiming their place in the Kingdom of God based on the fact that they were children of Abraham. Jesus responded to that by saying that if they were truly children of Abraham they would believe in Him. Because they didn’t acknowledge that He was from God and was the Messiah, they were really children of the devil. That didn’t win Him any points. He was telling the truth. They didn’t like to hear the truth. Jesus then added these important words, “Whoever is of God hears the words of God. The reason why you do not hear them is that you are not of God.”
It’s then that they came out with the insults about Jesus being a Samaritan and having a demon. This whole ugly scene ended with them picking up stones to throw them at Him, a punishment for someone who blasphemed God. Jesus showed a bit of His divine power by hiding Himself somehow and leaving the temple area. No stones hurt Him but He still left an angry crowd behind. This was a good lesson for the real followers of Jesus. He told them that they would face persecution. Proclaiming the truth of the Law and the Gospel was not always going to be the popular thing to do. When you read the Book of the Acts of the Apostles you will find many examples of the persecutions that they faced from the leaders of the Jews. They were put in prison. They were beaten. Stephen was stoned. James was executed. It was all because they spoke the truth, a truth that the people of the world did not want to hear. If you want to make enemies, speak the truth.
Down through the history of the Christian Church the situation has not changed. The early Christians faced persecution first from the Jewish leaders and later from the Romans who considered their emperor to be a god. Allegiance to any other was punishable by death. Later on when the church drifted from the truth, those who spoke out lost their lives. The crusades, as misguided as they were, sought to preserve the truth against those who denied the Word of God and salvation through Jesus Christ. That same kind of persecution continues in parts of the world today. In our own country, the truth is silenced in the name of political correctness and tolerance. Those who proclaim God’s truth are criticized and insulted in much the same way that Jesus was insulted for telling the truth. If they can’t respond to the truth they stoop to name-calling. That is simply a product of our sinful, selfish human nature. Jesus was right. If you do not believe the truth, you are not of God. If you are not children of God you are children of the devil. It’s that simple.
The big question for us though now is, how will we respond to the pressure to forsake the truth? When the world around us seeks to follow the philosophy of don’t criticize anyone, don’t confront someone with their sin, don’t even use the word sin because that’s too negative, what is a Christian to do? You want to get along with people. You don’t want to cause offense to anyone. Do you follow the easy path and simply say, “Oh well, live and let live?.” Do you just want to be everyone’s friend? Then you will just keep your mouth shut and say nothing. You will buy into the lies and you will end up just as Jesus said to those who criticized Him, “You are of your father the devil and your will is to do your father’s desires.” That paints a pretty depressing picture doesn’t it. The truth can sometimes be depressing when it convicts us of sin. But you need that. You need it often because you are constantly being tempted to follow the ways of the world and you often give in to that temptation. If you aren’t confronted with the truth of your sinful nature and the sinful acts that flow from it, you can easily convince yourself that you are OK and that your way of thinking makes a lot of sense. When that happens, you will find yourself slipping farther and farther away from the truth of God’s Word. It is then that the truth of the Law needs to be heard and it needs to touch your heart and help you to see the reality of your sinfulness and your need for rescue.
On this Trinity Sunday, you can rejoice because you have the opportunity to reflect on the work of the Triune God on your behalf. God the Father in His infinite love, saw your hopeless condition and sent His only begotten Son from His throne in heaven into the world to become a human being so that He could face temptation just like you do and stand up to the devil’s tricks and remain without sin in your place. He then took all your sins to the cross and gave up His life as the sacrifice to make atonement for your sins. He then sent the Holy Spirit through the Means of Grace, the Word and the Sacraments, to bring you to saving faith in Jesus and strengthen and keep you in the faith. Through your Baptism, you became a Child of the heavenly Father. You received the gift of the forgiveness of sins, rescue from death and the devil and the faith that leads to eternal life. Through the Lord’s Supper you also receive that power of the Holy Spirit for the forgiveness of sins and the power to resist temptation and live a God-pleasing life. The Three-in-One, our Triune God, has done all that is necessary to bring us from the depths of despair because of our sin into the joy of new life now and the eternal blessings of heaven.
You have been brought to the truth and through the power of the Holy Spirit, you have believed the truth. That faith in Jesus as your Lord and Savior gives you the victory that has been won for you. You have a wonderful message of truth to proclaim to all those around you. Just remember that when you tell the truth, you will face opposition. Just as Jesus had to deal with those who would not let go of their man-made traditions, you will have to deal with people who have rejected the truth in favor of their own brand of man-made religion. In spite of that opposition you can be confident that you have the truth and that God’s will is being proclaimed. Through the love and mercy of God, the Father, you are loved and cared for, through the Son, your sins are forgiven and you are reconciled to the Father, and through the work of the Holy Spirit, you are brought to faith and sustained in that faith through the Means of Grace. May the Church give thanks to the Trinity and proclaim the truth, even it is means making enemies, until Jesus, the Way, the Truth and the Life, comes again. Amen.
Rev. Gerald Matzke
Zion Lutheran Church
May 26, 2013